Shuttling ~20 people around town all weekend is a great way to feel at home. It switches the mindset away from "I'm still learning my way around." Suddenly, I'm the local. I know where things are. Wait - I know where things are! I live here! I
have learned something over the past year!
We got to show off Ann Arbor (and SE Michigan in general). Play hosts. Eat good food. Drink good booze. I even had a few folks over to play bridge (I had a lot of leftover snacks from the UU bridge game the week before, and needed to use some up). It's another item in a growing list of things that makes us feel like this is home now.
Urban Decay, Urban Art, Urban Revival

Part of this weekend was a tour of Detroit for those interested. Arthur rented a van and drove people around with a tour guide. Detroit is vast, and to get a sense of how far away some of these isolated neighborhoods that are getting cut off are, you really need to be in an automobile.
It's still sad to see the reality of some of these neighborhoods. But the tour guide was great and also focused on some of the positive history, and a lot of the great renewal projects underway, and parts of the city that remain untouched by trouble. It's difficult to capture the incredible range of Detroit in half a day, but this was a good sampling. I hope guests both learned a lot and enjoyed the more positive aspects.
We got to spend a while walking through
The Heidelberg Project. I don't understand most of this type of art, but it's still incredible to see. And even I found some things I liked. George took some great photos as part of his
Detroit Tour album.
I found myself feeling sad looking at some of the art, though. There were several places where piles of shoes were used as part of a piece. And when I was back in Boston last month, it was piles of shoes that made up the Marathon memorial. It was jolting. I know that this work predates the bombings. But it's still an association my brain makes right now.
The tour was coupled (for most guests) with time at the Henry Ford Museum. Which showcases a lot of the positive history of the region and the auto manufacturers before the decline.
It is, however, definitely a college town
We were at the beer garden one night, when an obviously drunk heterosexual couple came over and introduced themselves to a member of our party. The inebriated female proceeded to drape and wrap herself all over him, even after he told her he was gay. (She is already a motss.con legend.)
We spend so much of our time around grad student families (here in Northwood) or other adults out of school that it's easy to forget that this is
very much a college town, and there is a large population of stereotypical young drunk fools that we manage to avoid most of the time. It's useful to be reminded of this from time to time, just... not in so dramatic a manner.
Summer is here
Of course, it was also the most humid and hot weather since we've moved here. So we and our guests were drooping slugs a lot of the time. Ugh. You'd think I wasn't half Puerto Rican.
However, the Botanical Gardens are now in bloom. The canoes/kayaks are available for rental. And it's light out until late, so we worried less about our guests getting lost on the way to/from dinner. Sure, there's a giant hole in the middle of downtown, blocking off a major intersection next to our dinner location, but hey - you can't miss it with that much daylight ;)
And I'm really glad the rain held off the night we were at the beer garden. Ann Arbor has a lot of local breweries, so hanging out in a beer garden after dinner is a great way to get a sense of the town. People watching. (Until they drape themselves all over you, that is.) Moving around the group, to connect with different guests. Sampling the rosé.
Summer also means the farmers market, although we got there pretty late and the selection was noticeably smaller. Still, the market always attracts creative buskers.
Send in the postcards
Seriously, I know there are postcards at the M Den (because I've bought them there before), but apparently none of the downtown shops carry them. !!! While it was sad not to see AnnB this year, it's a good thing she wasn't here - she'd have had to fight Chris for the few postcards he could find! (Round 1: fight!)
Anyway, for those of you who couldn't make it this year, this is why y'all didn't get a group postcard. It's not because we hate you. Well, it might also be because we hate you. Yes, you. But it's mostly because Ann Arbor hates you.
I wish that the Supreme Court decision had come two days earlier, or that the .con had been two days longer. Because the downfall of DOMA would have made for the best .con event EVER.
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In summary, we had a great time. It was good to see everyone, as always. And putting on a tour guide hat does help make this place feel like home.